insecure black men

I just received this message in my facebook inbox…

"I like your status it makes sense White girls are a place of comfort of insecure men"

I think many people fail to understand that our securities tend to lie in the pockets of those we really care about. On top of that, all of us have our own insecurities. In a relationship, it is your job to make your man/woman feel a wonder even when you know they are not, because if you don’t someone else will.

Think about this, the less you tell your man how good he looks, the better it feels to him when a stranger does, and the same is true the other way around.I think when black women say things like this “white women are great for insecure black men” it is a cop out; it comes from them not looking for the problem at home. You have to think, as beautiful as our black women are, why are many black men running away from them? Why is it that your significant other is insecure? That should never be the case. His or her security is at all times your responsibility. If he/she is lacking it is your fault.

You can find a man as secure as they come, but when he begins to confide in you, or allows himself to become vulnerable, you now have the power to pummel it into the ground.I dunno’ im just thinkin’hotep